For AF, here’s a pic of my EVSE (wall unit).
It’s not going to win any design awards, but it’s fine. I don’t really notice it anymore.
Re: road trips. I guess it might be different if I didn’t have kids? But when I go to NYC I stop once and invariably the car is ready before the people are.
The calculus might change on a road trip that required more than one stop, but I don’t do many of those. At that point it’s usually worth my time to just fly.
As for why I take the Tesla? It’s bigger and more comfortable. And I’d much rather stop to charge than buy gas in NJ.